| Location | Kilbirnie |
| Age | 65 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 04/06/1943 |
| Date of Death | 19/01/2009 |
| Visitors | 524 since 24/01/2009 |
| Creator |
My Dad, My Hero, My Best Friend!
Thomas Barker was born on 4th June 1943 x
Married to Rosemary McKelvie and had 1 Daughter, Andrea! Two Grandchildren, Christopher & Stephanie came along and his life was complete x
He was a Steelworker till it closed in 1985, and then a Security Supervisor and was due to Retire after Christmas 2008, but sadly it was not to be!
He got admitted to Hospital on 29th Dec 08 suffering from a "Sore Back" Doctors were treating him for a "Pulled Muscle" for 3 months, he found out the next day it was Lung Cancer and it had spread to his Bones & Liver! Dad fought for his life and thought of only us during this time. He was so looking forward to coming home to us on the 19th Jan, but passed away at 11am that very day, surounded by his heartbroken family.
Dad you fought so hard to stay with us, and it was the hardest thing weve ever had to do was to let you go x
You Were "Simply The Best"
Tam Barker
1943-2009
Love & Miss You So Much xxx
On Your 3rd Anniversary In Heaven x
Cherished Memories Of Tam, Died 19th January 2009, A Loving Husband, Dad & Grandpa.
Although We Smile And Make No Fuss, No One Misses Him More Than Us.
And When Old Times We Often recall, That's When We Miss Him Most of All.
Rosemary, Andrea, Ian, Christopher, Stephanie & Cory xxx
Happy New Year 2012 x
Dad this is our 3rd New Year without you, plenty of tears shed at midnight x Nothings the same anymore. If only I could see you one more time and hold you close to me, but then Dad I wouldnt want to let you go. All our hearts ache Dad especially at this time of year. Christmas, New Year then its ur 3rd Anniversary. Oh WHY Dad, Why did you have to leave us?????? Feel so ill, and all I want is a cuddle from my Dad x You got me through my Tumour days, I feel so alone now! Love & Miss You So Much Dad xxx
Dad xxx
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Since my Dad Died
I feel as if my life has ended,
As my heart is so broken
and can never be truly mended.
You can't make me feel better
NO I'm never going to heal,
You haven't been where i am
you don't know how i feel.
I hope you never have to feel
The way that i do,
I wouldn't wish on anyone
What I'm going through.
Stop asking how I'm feeling
Cos you don't want to know,
If i told you the truth
You'd soon get up and go.
I say that I'm ok
Cos its what you want to hear,
That's not how I'm feeling
It isn't anywhere near.
My Dad has Died
I cant get it out my head,
I spend my time thinking
Of thing's I wish i'd done or said.
I wish someone could help me
To take away my pain,
But only my loving Dad can do that
When I'm holding him again.
His memory will live on
And he will always be remembered,
When we are reunited
My heart will then be mended.
♥~ ♥~ ♥~ ♥~ ♥~ ♥~ ♥~ ♥~ ♥~ ♥~ ♥~ ♥~
Missing You So Much xxx
Awe Dad, its one of these nights when a cant stop thinking about you, feel really down, what a would give for 5 more minutes with you. Its 3 years fae you took ill, and weve got Christmas coming up then your 3rd Anniversary, time has passed so quick Dad. Never a day passes when ur not on our mind, we all miss you so much x Steph got Engaged 3 weeks ago, ur wee girl awe grown up, its no fair you missing oot oan awe this, Chrissy was on Holiday in Zante in September, hope you got a laugh wae the photos!!!! Corys getn so big noo, hes Beautiful Dad, wish ud got to have known him better, a swear he can see you sometimes, he doesnt leave ur photo alone, he paws and barks at it as if hes talking to you. Mums Retired noo, and not so ill, keep a wee eye on her x Was doon at ur wee Garden oan Sunday, its looking lovely Dad, wae awe ur flowers, never miss a week x Love & Miss You So Much x Ninite Dad x Luv u xxx
Happy Fathers Day xxx
Im sending my Fathers Day wishes to Heaven again this year Dad x If I could have just one wish it would be to spend one more day with you, but then I couldnt let you go again x Lifes no fair, but then we knew that Dad, didnt we? I dread June coming, ur Birthday, then mine, then Fathers Day, but then again ur on my mind every day and night x Love & Miss You So Much x Ninite Dad x Luv u xxx
Dad xxx
I lost my Dad, my Special Friend 2yrs ago today, and since that day I lost you Dad, Ive changed in every way.
I sat beside your bedside, my heart was crushed and sore, I did my duty to the end till I could do no more.
In tears I watched you sinking, and slowly fade away, And tho my heart was breaking I wanted you to stay.
I know you walk beside me, and when my life is through, I pray to God he takes my hand, and leads me straight to you xxx Love You Dad xxx
Missing You So Much Dad xxx
Todays your 2nd Anniversary in Heaven Dad, 2yrs since I last saw you, its been a struggle and it doesnt get any easier!!!! if I had just one wish it would be to see you walking through the door. Aye Dad, Cancers a B******! Never for one minute did I think Id loose you to it, 3 weeks wasnt enough, wish Id never said to have Chemo, wish id listened to you, maybe we'd of had longer. The line went in Dad and you were gone! Back to canny sleep, every time I close my eyes I see you x Love & Miss You So Much x Ninite Dad x Luv u xxx
Miss You xxx
They Say Being A Parent is Tough, But Being A Daughter Without Her Dad, Is So Much Harder!
Miss You So Much Dad xxx
In Loving Memory x
BARKER
In Loving memory of my Husband Tam, taken from me on 19th January 09
We always knew some day we'd have to part, when that day came it broke my Heart.
Love you always, Rosemary xxx
Dad
It only takes a little space to write how much I miss you, but it will take the rest of my life to forget the way I lost you.
Ninite Dad x Luv u x
Andrea & Ian xxx
Grandpa
Tenderly we treasure the past, with memories that will always last.
Tam you were "Simply The Best"
Love Christopher, Stephanie & Cory xxx
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